ep 21 Hey, sis! Let’s talk about something real today—mom guilt. Yup, that overwhelming, nagging feeling that creeps in and makes you question whether you’re doing enough as a mom and an entrepreneur. If you’ve ever felt torn between growing your business and being present for your kids, trust me, you are NOT alone.

Mother’s Day always gets me reflecting on motherhood, business, and the constant juggle between the two. As Christian moms, we want to do everything in a way that honors God, but sometimes, that guilt sneaks in and makes us feel like we’re falling short.

But here’s the good news: you don’t have to stay stuck in that guilt! Today, I want to share three powerful ways you can overcome mom guilt as a Christian mompreneur. Let’s dive in!

1. Stop Being Too Hard on Yourself

Girl, listen to me—you are doing AMAZING. I know that sometimes it doesn’t feel like it, but I promise you, you are! One of the biggest reasons we struggle with mom guilt is because we set ridiculously high expectations for ourselves. And when we don’t meet them? Cue the guilt trip.

I remember a time when my husband had a job that required him to travel a lot. That meant I was basically a single mom during the week—taking care of my kids while also running a business. One day, I got a call from my son’s school saying he had gotten into trouble. I immediately spiraled into guilt mode.

“If I wasn’t so focused on my business, maybe this wouldn’t have happened.”
“I should be a better mom.”
“Am I failing my kids?”

Sound familiar? That moment made me realize that I was being WAY too hard on myself. The truth is, my son’s behavior wasn’t a reflection of me being a bad mom—it was just a moment he needed to learn from. Instead of beating myself up, I needed to show myself the same grace that God shows me daily.

Sis, you will make mistakes. You will have days where you feel like you’re falling short. But that does NOT make you a bad mom. It makes you human. God never called us to be perfect moms; He called us to be present, loving, and faithful. So, let’s start being kind to ourselves, okay?

2. Let Go of the World’s Expectations of Motherhood

Here’s the thing—society has a LOT of opinions on what a “good” mom should look like. Some people say you should be a stay-at-home mom. Others say you should work. Some say you should homeschool. Others say you should send your kids to school. The list goes on and on.

But guess what? The world doesn’t get to define what kind of mom you should be. Only God does.

Romans 12:2 (NLT) says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” That means we don’t have to follow society’s rules for motherhood. We can ask God to guide us in making the best decisions for OUR families.

If you’re feeling guilty because you’re not measuring up to some unrealistic expectation—let it go. Your kids don’t need a perfect mom; they need a happy, faith-filled, and present mom. And the only way to be that is to stop trying to live up to everyone else’s standards and start walking in the purpose God has for YOU.

3. Get Your Kids Involved in Your Business

One of the best ways to ease mom guilt? Involve your kids in your business! This doesn’t mean they need to work for you (unless they want to!), but simply letting them be a part of what you do can make a HUGE difference.

When my daughter was little, she would always see me working on my computer and ask, “Mommy, what are you doing?” Instead of brushing her off, I started explaining my work in a way she could understand. I’d tell her, “Mommy helps people shop and find things they love.” She was fascinated! Sometimes, I’d even let her click the “send” button on an email or help me wrap small gifts for customers.

Even small moments like this help our kids understand why we do what we do. Instead of feeling like our business takes us away from them, they start to see it as something they can be a part of.

Here are a few simple ways to involve your kids:

• Explain your work in a fun and age-appropriate way.
  
• Let them “help” with small, safe tasks (like putting stickers on packaging or sorting supplies).
  
• Create a special workspace where they can do their own “work” while you do yours.
  
• Set aside a fun reward for when you finish a big project together (like a movie night or ice cream date!).
  

When your kids understand why you’re passionate about your business, they will be more likely to support you—and you’ll feel less guilty about the time you spend working.

You Are Enough, Sis!

At the end of the day, being a mompreneur is a beautiful (and sometimes messy) journey. There will be days when you feel like you’re crushing it and days when you feel like you’re failing. But through it all, remember this:

God chose YOU to be your children’s mom. He chose YOU to build this business. And He will give you the grace to do both.

So, let’s recap:

1. Stop being too hard on yourself. Give yourself the same grace you’d give a friend.
   
2. Let go of the world’s expectations. Follow God’s plan for YOUR family, not society’s.
   
3. Get your kids involved. Make your business a family journey, not a solo one.
   

And most importantly, trust that God has already equipped you with everything you need to be a great mom and a successful entrepreneur.

So, take a deep breath, sis. You’re doing better than you think. Keep going, keep praying, and keep showing up. You’ve got this!

P.S. If this post encouraged you, share it with another mompreneur who needs a little reminder that she’s doing an amazing job. We’re in this together! ❤️