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Have you ever had that nagging feeling that you’re meant to do something bigger, something that truly aligns with who you are, but self-doubt keeps creeping in? Maybe you’ve been freelancing, helping family and friends with your skills, but the thought of turning it into a full-blown business scares you. You wonder, “Do I really have what it takes? What if I fail?”
If that sounds familiar, then this is for you. Because today, we’re going to talk about how God has already equipped you to step into your calling—and why it’s time to stop second-guessing yourself and start moving forward.
Let’s get something straight: You are not underqualified. You are not incapable. You are not missing anything. God has already placed everything you need inside you.
When I started my first business back in 2011, I was terrified. I had been freelancing as a personal shopper for family and friends, but the thought of actually charging for my services and making it official? That felt overwhelming.
I thought, “What if I fail publicly? What if I don’t have what it takes? What if no one wants to pay me?”
And then there was perfectionism—waiting for the “perfect” time to start, waiting for things to be just right. But here’s the truth: The perfect time never comes. If I had waited for everything to be flawless, I’d still be waiting.
I launched my business when I was eight months pregnant with my third child, while my husband was working out of town, and while I was managing two energetic school-age boys. My life was already chaotic, but I knew God was calling me to this. And if He was calling me, that meant He was going to equip me.
And guess what? That’s true for you too.
One of the scriptures that helped me push past fear is 2 Timothy 1:7:
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.”
Let’s pause right there. If fear and doubt keep showing up in your mind, they are not from God. That means you don’t have to accept them! Instead, you can reject them.
When I read this verse, I realized that if fear wasn’t from God, then it had to be coming from somewhere else. And the Bible tells us to resist the devil, and he will flee (James 4:7). So every time fear whispered, “You’re not good enough,” I spoke back: “I resist that thought. God has given me power, love, and self-discipline.”
You can do the same. Speak God’s truth over your fears.
One of the biggest lies we believe is that we need clarity before we take action. But actually, clarity comes from taking action.
When God called Moses, Moses doubted himself. He listed all the reasons why he wasn’t the right person for the job. But God already knew Moses had what it took—because God had put it inside him.
The same is true for you.
If you keep waiting for a moment when you suddenly “feel ready,” you might be waiting forever. Faith comes from moving forward, even when things aren’t clear. Each step you take reveals the next one.
Think about Nehemiah. When he rebuilt the walls of Jerusalem, he faced resistance. People doubted him. But he kept going. Why? Because he knew that God had given him the strength and discipline to see it through.
So how do you stop second-guessing yourself and start walking in confidence?
Faith comes by hearing. But guess what? Fear also comes by hearing.
If you constantly hear negative thoughts—“I’m not good enough, I don’t know enough, I’ll never succeed”—you will start believing them.
Be mindful of what you’re allowing into your mind. Are you surrounding yourself with encouraging, faith-filled voices? Or are you letting fear and negativity dominate your thoughts?
Mark 4:24 says, “Pay close attention to what you hear. The closer you listen, the more understanding you will be given—and you will receive even more.”
What you focus on grows. If you focus on fear, it grows. If you focus on God’s truth, your confidence grows.
If fear and doubt come from the wrong voices, then faith comes from filling your mind with the right ones. The best way to do that? Meditate on God’s Word day and night.
Here’s a simple exercise:
When you do this consistently, you start to believe it. And once you believe it, fear loses its grip on you.
A mentor once told me that sometimes fear doesn’t go away before we take action. Instead of waiting for fear to disappear, carry it with you and move forward anyway.
Think of it like this: When a working mom has a crying baby, she doesn’t stop everything. She picks up the baby, holds them close, and keeps going.
You can do the same with fear. Say, “Fear, you’re not going to stop me. If you’re going to be here, you’re just going to have to watch me do what God has called me to do.”
And then do it anyway.
If you still have doubts about your calling, let this verse be your anchor:
Philippians 1:6 “And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.”
If God put the dream in your heart, He’s going to see it through. He is not going to leave you halfway. He is the one who will equip you, guide you, and sustain you.
So, friend, here’s your reminder: You are already equipped. You don’t need more qualifications. You don’t need everything to be perfect. You just need to take the first step.
Fear and doubt don’t have the final say. God does.
So go ahead—stop second-guessing yourself and start stepping into the calling God has placed on your life.
And if you ever need a reminder, just come back to these words: You have power. You have love. You have self-discipline.
It’s time to start. Are you ready?
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